Yup! She is having a lot of fun today!
Yup! She is having a lot of fun today!
BHRR’s Miss Lily (Deaf/Visually Impaired Great Dane) enjoying the Winter Wonderland today!
The once under socialised, full of anxiety, could not sleep when it was dark, self-mutilating, not house broken, terrified to go outside Deaf & Visually impaired Great Dane is now living a truly amazing life!
She has overcome SO much and while we are still working on some things – the occasional accident in her crate yet, where once it was many times a day, is now maybe three times a month – she has rehabbed into a really well adjusted full of mischief and loving life to the fullest each day kind of gal!
She has not had any stress about going outside, especially at night in a very long time.
She has been the best of friend and example to BHRR’s Fred who came in with his own anxiety and worries about going outside, especially at night.
She has taught him that is is ok to not be dignified and to Kanga-Dane and race and as the song goes ‘dance like no one is watching!’
He has in turn taught her to ‘try’ harder in being patient, to be calmer and that non everything is on her time schedule. She really is an instant gratification gal in many ways!
I may have a PhD yet, I have always said that the dogs help each other more than I ever could!
In re: to if/when Miss Lily may go up for adoption, that is still a big question mark.
We have been slowly working on play dates and visits with myself present and she is doing beautifully and she is not having any big set backs when we come home yet, she is not ready for more at this time…..
She is such a strong girl in a lot of ways, yet, fragile in others and we must do right by her – do right by all of the dogs in our care – and presently, she is not ready for more.
Will she get there?? That is not a pressure that I am putting on her. There is no timeline. We go at her pace, show and gently work on increasing her boundaries yet, never crossing her tolerance threshold. There are days that she bounces into the car, ready for the next adventure – sometimes with her bff and sometimes without as they both do still work on becoming the best dogs they can be on their own too – and other days she wants to stay close to home. Both are fine. That she wants to go out and explore and take on the world more and more is fabu. That she has days that she wants to be a homebody that is equally cool.
AND while she and BHRR’s Fred are the odd couple in so many ways – he is so funny with his soft grumbling vocal sounds until she gets him warmed up yet, if she does not poke and tease him, he pouts! – yet, they have equally done an unbelievable amount of successful work for each other.
He is like a puppy when she gets him started AND she is working on doing the same with BHRR’s Caramel. She is still a wee bit too much for him yet, he is interested and I can see that she is winning over his own heart!
This girl does not have a mean bone in her body – a bit selfish and adorably manipulative yes! – for it is often always about her! – yet, her heart is bigger than the universe and she is loyal and affectionate and makes me laugh so much daily with her antics!
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Good Friday afternoon!
The nickname I have for my one Dane, Jigsaw that I posted about earlier this week is ‘Elvis’ as ever since he was a wee pup, he always would give me this Elvis type smile….and now he even does it when I ask.
Well, this is Mr. Fred and he just may give my Jiggie a run for his money with the Elvis lip impression!
My one sweet story re: him is how Miss Lilly(Deaf/Visually Impaired GD) has taken him under her paws.
As many may recall, she has had issues with confidence plus stress going out at night when it is dark….she has made wonderful progress with that and in her housebreaking.
For some reason, Mr. Fred has also had some worries going outside at night and from the moment they first met, Miss Lily has taken him under her paws….
Her helping him has also helped herself!
She now zips in and out of the open door, showing him that it is ok to go out in the dark and she is really smitten with him….
Mr. Fred is quite reserved in situations he is not sure of and Miss Lily has been working her own magic and now he will often ‘Kanga-Dane’ in excitement at the door to go outside.
She is now such a playful girl and is slowly bringing out his inner carefree puppy and their relationship is deeply fascinating to witness.
In turn, he has been helping her get to a point of getting that much more close in being almost 100% housebroken and that we can go out in the rain and/or in the dark and while they do not have to be outside long, to do their business outside.
I have been doing this a long time, have several degrees in psychology and behaviour including a PhD and it never ceases to amaze me to see how much the animals help each other in more ways than I ever could…..
What a humbling beautiful experience these two Danes are giving me right now….incredibly WOW moments daily!
As I also say so often, while I wish r/q Rescue did not have to exist, to be given experiences such as this is very beautiful…..
Anyone that knows me is aware that with my behavioural clients and own dogs, I am not a med pusher. Yet, for Miss Lily, her anxiety was so severe, I had no choice if I was going to properly be able to assist her.
So, in conversing with her amazing Vet, we put her on a low dose of Trazodone BID. It was enough to get her to ‘come down off of that ledge’, focus more and from there we were back on track with housebreaking and being able to go outside at night with the other dogs – what a confidence booster for her! I say all the time that these dogs teach each other far more than I ever could – lowered her shadow chasing plus fly snapping – we are still not ruling out focal seizures on this front and car startling – sometimes when a vehicle passes her by in the car, she would suddenly jump to attention and race back and forth.
She was not pacing nor chewing at her healing wounds from her previous home so much, could actually not just rest but really sleep at night and was not so intense in these behaviours.
In the month or so since she has been on the lower dose, the weight and muscle mass is coming on for she can settle into to actually eat well, as friendly as she has been to the other dogs and almost all people – tall men still make her nervous! – she is even more relaxed now.
She is deaf and visually impaired and being put in a prong collar and also shock collar and not positively balance trained, she was a behavioural and physical hot mess.
While we are not there yet, with her rehabilitation journey, we are a heck of a lot further along that we have been.
She sits, lays down, stays, checks-in, walks so much better on a leash as she is no longer as stress for she understands more since we took the edge of her strain and worry, what is expected of her. I am open, clean and communicative in my requests of her. I am not forceful. I am repetitive, consistent, patient, understanding, kind and full of so much praise when she demonstrates appropriate displays of behaviour.
She is so messed up in her brain that we are just sticking with learning the solid basics, taking it one baby step at a time and she is responding!
I am not making demands of her. I am not manhandling her, I am not asking of her any more than I know that she can give me at any given time and this beautiful girl is blossoming like the most fragile and precious of flowers – except she is a bit of a bull in a china shop with her enthusiasm and zest for life. For, when she knows that she has done something right or is just plain happy and she makes my heart burst with my own happiness with the joy that she has when she sees me.
We are working through crate training and she has no issues being in her crate yet, she will still have an accident as going outside, especially at night, still stresses her at times.
When I felt she was ready to be spayed, I talked in depth to her Vet and we put a sedative med protocol in place so that she would feel no worries, strain or anxiety.
Sean and I began the day before her spay – and I had worked hard on her crate training so that she would not react to being in one of the runs at work.
She had Trazodone(150 mgs TID) throughout the day before her spay, had some Gabapentin(300 mgs) plus her Deramaxx that night before bed.
First thing yesterday AM, she had another dose of Trazodone and I brought her to work when my own shift started and we pre-med her with ACE/Hydro.
She went down like a lamb – gave us a bit of excitement in the surgical suite – yet, that had nothing to do with her anxiety!
We did run bloodwork and also then repeated the CBC to be sure all was good and the only worry after her spay that she gave us was her low temp for the longest time.
Once we had her temp closer to normal, got her up on her feet, Sean came to pick her up and she was calm, very much at peace and 100% fantastic for her whole time at EVC!
Could not have asked for a better spay experience for her…us, not so much excitement needed yet, it was all worth it to make things for her to be so smooth and anxiety free!
She is recovering nicely and while she still has a journey to go with her rehabilitation prior to be ready to make her own special announcement, this girl ROCKS!
I adore her…..I love every bit and piece and hair on her…..
The less confused and anxious free she is becoming, her personality – HUGE to begin with – is just emerging more and more and she really is a gift…….
Thank you to CR, RE plus Dr. G. for being part of her set-up for success team at EVC and thank you to Mason and Sean for coming in to pick her up and take her home so that she did not have to spend another 5 hours there until my own shift ended. Though, per the above, she totally rocked the 7 hours that she was there……
Picture Post #8 Miss Lily
*Deaf/Minor Visual Impairment
My final picture of her day at the Vet!
She wants to be friends with the dog in the picture on the wall!
I think she believes that by standing on the stair will get her closer to the dog in the picture and said dog could then see her and be her friend! LOL
She is so proud of herself and I am so proud of her and if you have followed her picture journey today at the Vet and would like to see us re-open our doors to keep helping dogs like Miss Lily, we ask you to please do consider making a donation to our cause.
If you believe that we are making a positive difference to dogs like Miss Lily, please do consider supporting us…..
We are handling some big unexpected bills with dogs like The Bakers Dozen of BHRR’s Fletcher and with everything Miss Penelope the Newf has been going through – we are still awaiting the biopsy results on her ovaries.
We continue to also handle enormous Vet Bills for dogs like BHRR’s Volt and BHRR’s Rion.
Donations can be made via PayPal to firstname.lastname@example.org
OR via email transfer to email@example.com
OR you can made donations direct to Eagleson Veterinary Clinic 613-383-8381
On behalf of Miss Lily and our home, we wish all of our friends, family and supporters a wonderful night! Thank you for following her picture journey at the Vet today!
This is Miss Lily when the Vet visit was over and she notes a large pic of a dog on the wall!
Her picture journey of her day at the Vet continues!
Miss Lily – sitting in the chair!
Successful Vet visit had thanks to understanding, patience, time – we were there over an hour between arrival and leaving – consistency, tough love and acceptance!
This was a fabu training and awesome rehab day for her…..
Yes, she has one blue eye and one brown eye.
She is such a ham! You just have to allow her to get to know you…..for when she decides you are ‘ok’, she will truly want to be your bff!
Picture #5 While we still wait to be seen by the Vet, Miss Lily decides it is ok to lay on her side….keeping those gorgeous peepers on me at all times!
All I am doing is just being there for her, in her sight, quiet, comfortable and having confidence demonstrating in my body language that all will be ok.
When the Vet came in, she was in my lap again and when he crouched down and put his body sideways, she came up for some sniffs and some pats.
This girl had been put into a prong, harsh training methods had been used and while she was nervous she equally showed backbone to me that if she was forced she would mouth gently. She correctly beautifully as I respect her.
As told to the Vet, yes, she is nervous yet she equally is pushing back as she just does not want something to happen. We have to find that balance and so, we did not get her temperature yet her heart was listened to.
We did not do bloodwork yet I do know that we could have done this yet stated I was happy to wait and she had her vaccines. A partial mouth exam was done and the big success was that she knew at the end of it that she survived!
To not have done anything at this Visit, she would have not learned anything and while we did not get all done that she needs, we got some truly important things done and she saw that at the end of it that she not just survived yet thrived!
To me that was a great Vet visit!!
As more time passes, she shifts to her side to be more comfortable and though she is still posed to jump if I make the slightest movement, she is relaxing a bit more….
She then decides it is ok to lay down…not 100% comfortable yet this is huge going from literally in my lap to being near me….
She is still not going to let me out of her eyesight though…
Picture post #4
Miss Lily then moves away from me to do some de-stressing self-comforting stretches.
The huge thumbs up is seeing her working to provide some reassurance to herself now after I did so…..
She would keep come back to me yet, she is also realising that she, too can help herself.
She is not taking her eyes off me though and that is 100% fine.
We have also been working on her ‘check in’ and she is doing extremely well!
You can see how skinny she is by noting not 1, not 2, not 3 yet four ribs on that one side poking out.
Yet, we will get there!
She still is not sure…..yet, I am and passed along my comfortable calm vibrations through my words as she rested on my Chest.
For those who do not know….she is deaf and visually impaired and the vibrations of my calm voice can be felt by her as she rests her head on my chest for reassurance…
I promised her it would be ok….
Her face tells a thousand things…and my purpose is to give her the best experience possible today to make the second visit even easier on her.
This is Miss Lily coming over for some reassurance and she received some calming touches and a smooch. This is before the Vet even came in……
Her face is very expressive….
You can also see the raw healing wounds from the prong use that had gone on in her previous home.
She now sports a stunning Wiggle Bumz Collar that I bought.
So, as people can see in the first picture thread post, how Miss Lily was with the people she met today – other than the one tall man and her Vet.
This is Picture #2 – in the exam room. We went into the exam room about half an hour after we arrived.
She had been overall content in the waiting area and other than backing into me and clearly showing some cautious worried body language when the one tall man walked by, she was curious, sitting in my lap, sitting in the chairs and sitting on other people’s laps.
Breaks your heart to then see this.
This is where I then passively ignore and did not make a big deal out of us being there. Calming touch when she sought me out, I sat down and acted like being at the Vet is a perfectly great and ok place to be….answered emails and treated the world as normal.
This body language of hers is not the same as what it was when we first arrived….
So, this shall be a picture story of Miss Lily at Eagleson Veterinary Clinic today.
Picture #1 – Making friends in the waiting room! Not much personal space given by this girl if she decides you are going to be her friend! No matter if you have space issues, she does not care yet, to all the met her today, they had zero issues with her being in their bubble!
We arrived about 15 minutes early and were there for about 1 hour. I wanted to give her plenty of time to settle in.
On our drive in she does OCD chase the occasional vehicle that passed us. As of yet no pattern found yet documenting it all so I can best assist her moving forward. She was always fine when I passed vehicles and occasionally had an issue with a vehicle that would pass us be it on the highway or local roads.
She weighed a thin 39.2 Kgs(86.24 pounds) and ideally I would like to see her closer to 100 pounds. We shall get there!
The thing that made her most nervous was the one tall man that walked by which in turn the other tall man that she saw today was her Vet.
These photo’s I shall post in separate posts are the different faces of BHRR’s Miss Lily @ the Vet.
‘Where are we going now Mama Gwennie?!’
Curious and though a bit cautious at first, once she knows all is ok, she is all in with the body leans and happy tail and loving!
Good thing she is so adorable for she is in a head lock with me re: crate training! She has worn down her previous home so many times that she is determined to do it with me too.
She does not know me very well….yet….
We are also making wonderful progress on the house breaking and her general anxiety.
We are making excellent progress with her car anxiety too. She is learning that there are amazing experiences and caring hands with lots of praise plus treats associated with the car and this girl wants to trust people badly.
Her obedience manners are overall ok and once her puppy brain settles and she is not so overwhelmed with distractions plus stimulation, she is going to rock!
We are getting better with the ‘check in’ looks and she is quite proud of herself when she realises she has done it! The more clear open communication she has the more she relaxes as she learns to become a dog and is not confused about the expectations asked of her.
She is starting to show a playful side and has taken a shine to BHRR’s Juniper and BHRR’s Burst. BHRR’s Juniper being half Wolfie is making Miss Lily work for it and BHRR’s Burst takes play to a level that Miss Lily is not quite ready for yet these are the two that she has connected with and with her charm, she is going to win over BHRR’s Juniper!
Today, we are off to the Vet and will post an update afterwards……
NOT YET AVAILABLE FOR ADOPTION
Good Morning from this ray of sunshine!!
*Deaf / Minor Vision Impairment
*~15 months old
She is settling in well….crate training is going so much better then expected.
She has proven with us to not be housebroken but we will get there!
She has some anxiety also about going outside and we are working through that.
She is very confused about what being a dog is about yet baby steps.
She is the sweetest and most precious of gems! She is affectionate and expresses her joyous feelings with her whole wiggly body!
She loves to flip water bowls and then just look at you! What a ham!! It is like ‘now that I have your attention…..’
I am totally loving this girl and getting to know her!
I got her!
BHRR’s Miss Lily (Deaf/Visually Impaired Great Dane) – AND her vision impairment is quite minor.
She is the most adorable small package! Smaller than Miss Tilly and equally gorgeous!
We have some behavioural OCD things to work through plus the typical training from what her owner has imparted my way. Sadly, this amazing well intentioned home hired a ‘trainer’ for $3,000 that believes in prongs plus shock collars and just as we knew would be the answer, the behaviours for this sweet innocent young thing became worse.
She has understandable anxiety too.
*NOTE: This thread is not open to debate as to whether you may think prongs, chokes and e-collars are great training tools.*
This poor girl’s neck is raw now.
She is skinny yet, she is also a growing maturing Dane and the weight will come on.
I am now making my long drive home with a real gem of a Dane – I already know that she is going to be a hoot, so much personality plus love and affection in this girl! Already covered in the Dane leans!
She will begin her proactive/preventative vetting on Monday – I want to give her some time to settle in. We will begin her de-worming protocol now though. She will also need to be spayed – per her Owner, she has had one heat already and is due to have another one shortly.
It was such a pleasure meeting Miss Lily’s Owner and I said several times over that they can reach out any time, that Miss Lily has her own blog already etc.
AND I am anticipating a night of no sleep for crate training is on the agenda for this girl. Mannerisms 101 coming up with Gwennie’s doggie boot camp!
AND as we have posted already, our doors are now indefinitely closed until further notice.
We have had so many unexpected Vet Bills with BHRR’s Fletcher & BHRR’s Miss Penelope being the latest.
For anyone who may consider assisting us in keeping out doors open, donations can be made direct to Eagleson Veterinary Clinic 613-383-8381
OR via PayPal to firstname.lastname@example.org
OR via email transfer to email@example.com
This girl is not yet AVAILABLE FOR ADOPTION and as we have answered more than one home to date, we will not consider a home without a properly safely fenced in yard.
Her previous Owner can attest to the importance of a fenced in yard as they lost one of their Doberman’s from being hit by a transport…..
Thank you also once more to Tanya of Poet’s Vision in putting this home in touch with us.
This is Miss Lily!
~15 month old Great Dane
*She is Deaf & Visually Impaired
Thank you from our hearts to Tanya of Poet’s Vision for putting the O. in touch with our highly focused special needs Great Dane Rescue.
As I state so often, good owners sometimes have to let go of their dogs and it is an extremely difficult time for them.
This home is not new to dogs and is not inexperienced yet, having a deaf/visually impaired Dane is new to them. They have worked hard to do right by her and they now want better for her.
BHRR is here to support and to assist where needed and please do join me in providing kindness to her O.
ETA to BHRR Thursday August 1st.
I also wish to thank Tasha for offering to temp foster BHRR’s Oliver so that I can bring this lovely gem direct into my own home!
After her arrival, per a previous post, our doors will be closed as we need to take care of our financial health. With the unexpected expense of BHRR’s Fletcher of not one yet two surgeries this week, our coffers are bare.
BHRR relies on the kindness and support of others via donations to keep BHRR operating to the high standard that we do and BHRR is mostly funded out of the personal pockets of Sean/myself.
We are tapped right taking care of BHRR’s Volt, BHRR’s Rion and now BHRR’s Fletcher plus BHRR’s Penelope, so once BHRR’s Lily arrives; we are sorry to say that we can not help any further dogs for X period of time.
For those that may consider our cause to support, donations can be made direct to Eagleson Veterinary Clinic 613-383-8381
OR via PayPal to firstname.lastname@example.org
OR via email transfer to email@example.com
We never will compromise the high level of care each animal deserves and while we wish we could keep our doors open; we cannot without your help.
BHRR has been the local Great Dane/Giant Breed Rescue since 1996 and we thank you in advance for any consideration……